Aspire! Discovering Your Purpose Through the Power of Words
By
Kevin Hall
Reviewed by
Andrew Hamilton
On
7/18/2009
Book Wise Publishing, 2009
Hardcover:
243 pages
ISBN-10: 0-06196-454-9
ISBN-13: 978-0-06196-454-1
Price: $24.95
I must admit that I probably would not have heard of Kevin Hall or his book
Aspire! if it weren’t for the fact that his sister-in-law works with
me. I’m not usually one for “Self Help” books and talks. Stephen
Covey, Anthony Robbins, The Power of You, Wake Up to a Happier You,
and the related books and “Motivational seminars” just don’t do it for
me. To me these books/seminars are usually condescending at best, and
at their worst are a corrupt way for some author/speaker to get rich off
of selling books and tickets to a bunch of poor, gullible, folks who
think that their whole life will change by reading this one book or
attending this one seminar. But an important friend asked me to read
this book and give it a chance thinking that it might help in my life
and profession (Job Coach) so I have.
If you are like me and had never heard of Kevin Hall before reading this
review you are still probably familiar with one of his works, especially
if you are from Utah. The slogan for the 2002 Winter Olympics, “Light
the Fire Within,” was created by Kevin Hall. This Olympic slogan shows
his same fascination for the potential power and effect that words can
have on a person that is found in the book Aspire! According to the
introduction to the book which was written by Stephen Covey:
"Aspire! Will help you understand that words contain an inherent power,
a force capable of lighting one's paths and hoped-for horizons. Used
correctly and positively, words are the first building blocks for
success and inner peace; they provide the vision and focus that show the
way to growth and contribution. Used incorrectly and negatively, they
are capable of undermining even the best of intentions. This is true in
business, in personal relationships, and every other walk of life…Words
lead and words impede. Words heal and words kill. By truly understanding
what words mean in their purest sense, we are able to unlock their
importance and divine value and put ourselves in position to develop a
new leadership vocabulary that looks up, not down, and inspires,
motivates, uplifts, excites, and propels. When words are used properly,
they sing out to the human heart."
That’s a lot to promise from one little book that is just under 250
pages long. Does Hall succeed? Will the reader of this book come away
with new purpose and power? Reactions, of course, will vary, but I
think that fans of “self help books,” of Stephen Covey, Franklin
planners, “Motivational Speakers” and the like will really love this
book. For me, I found much of it to be interesting and helpful, I even
found some things in it that I have been able to use at work, but I also
had issues with the book and feel that it has several flaws. I will go
into this further in the review. First I want to give a brief
description of the book's contents.
Aspire! is composed of eleven chapters with each chapter being based
around a single word. Some of the words discussed include,
“Pathfinder,” “Namaste”, "Passion,” “Sapere Verde,” “Coach,” and
“Integrity.” The order of the chapters is designed to take you on
“Kevin’s personal journey of discovery,” (viii). The layout of the
chapters also has significance in that,“(t)he first five chapters deal
with personal development... the middle chapter sits by itself... its theme is
central to the whole book.... The last five chapters are about leading
others.” (x)
The chapters generally start with a story, many of them Hall’s personal
experiences, or the experiences of someone he has met, that introduces
the “word” to be investigated. Then he offers his insights and quotes
from and shares the stories of others with like views. Many of the
chapters then have a section called “Afternoons with Arthur.” “Aspire!
is dedicated to Professor Arthur Watkins, whom Hall calls “the
undisputed Master of Words.” Near the beginning of the book Hall shares
the story of how he met retired linguist and Professor Arthur Watkins
through a mutual friend. After meeting, the two spent many afternoons
together at Arthur’s rest home discussing their love for words and
exploring their origin, meaning, and potential to affect the human soul.
The “Afternoons with Arthur” sections recount some of their more
memorable visits. Next comes a little more detail about the discussed
word. All of the chapters then end with a “Journal” page that contains
thoughts and questions that are meant to stimulate the recording of
lessons that the reader has learned from the chapter in their journal.
There is also a space for the reader to write the name of a person they
know, a mentor, teacher or friend who exemplifies the word that was just
studied. Hall wants no passive readers, he expects you to take an
active part in what you are reading, he wants the book to become an
experience.
I had two favorite chapters in Aspire! I really liked Chapter 3 which
is about the word “Namaste,” which is a Sanskrit word that according to
Hall means, “I Salute the God within you, I salute your God given
gifts.” (p. 43) I enjoyed this chapter because of its emphasis on
serving and recognizing the inherent worth in others. I also really
liked Chapter 11 on “Integrity,” largely because in it Hall tells the
story of his old Scout Master, a man named Ray Freeman. Hall shares the
stories of many famous people that he has met and interacted with
(something I will discuss further in this review), but Ray Freeman is
one of the few “ordinary” people discussed in Aspire! His story is
one of the real gems in this book. No one but his scouts and neighbors
would have heard of Freeman without this book, and he was my favorite
person in Aspire! to read about. He is the type of quiet “everyday”
hero that has never sought the spotlight but for years had made the
lives of all around him better. I learned the greatest lessons in
Aspire! from reading about Freeman.
Now for my problems with Aspire! One thing that really annoyed me
about this book was that Hall quoted a number of authors and famous
persons to support his ideas and views but he provides no citations or
bibliography. He quotes or shares the stories of a number of people,
including William Wordsworth, Viktor Frankel, Dr. Gerald Bell, Albert
Einstein, William Danforth, Og Mandino, and many others. He
occasionally gives a book name in his text, for example, “Og Mandino in
The Greatest Salesman in the World said…,” or “In The Power of Myth,
Joseph Campbell writes…” but often he just throws out a name with a
story or quote and leaves it at that. I realize that some may say that
in a book of this type, footnotes, endnotes and citations would just bog
it down and would not be appreciated by the target audience. I realize
that many of the stories that he shares of people who are or were
recently living are people who he has met, worked with, and in some
cases is good friends with, and some may say that since he is often
relating personal experience, this negates the need for quote and story
citations. Be all this as it may, I like to be able to look things up,
to be able to go back to the source and to find context when someone
else’s opinions are used as evidence to support a point. I think that
many would agree. Another related problem is that Aspire! has no
index, so if you find a story or a quote that you like and want to
remember it or share it with someone you’d better have a good memory or
have a handy dandy note book nearby while you are reading.
The biggest problem for me however was the overall feel I got from the
book. One of the words Hall discusses is “Sincere.” To me this was
ironic because I felt a certain lack of sincerity in Aspire! I stress
again, “Self Help” books are not my usual genre Those who enjoy such
books will probably not react to it as I did. If you like The Seven
Habits and other such books, I think that you will like this book, but
for me it contained a “Better than thou” sort of attitude. I was really
put off by what I felt was Hall’s constant name dropping. Many of the
stories and experiences in the book seemed to start with, “Let me tell
you about the time I met some famous star, speaker, or athlete, etc.”
He also spent too much time for me going on about his fantastic life.
It seemed like he was putting himself, his success, and his money on
display, “The time I went on the Tour-de-France...,” “When I was in
Vienna...," “My trip to Chicago to hang out with Gene Siskel...,” and other
little constant references to his wealth, his home, etc. My feelings in
this regard are perhaps best summed up by a quote from Dr. Rachel Naomi
Remen, a physician, counselor, and author whose writings focus on
serving and recognizing the strength in others. She said:
"Serving is different from helping. Helping is based on inequality; it
is not a relationship between equals. When you help you use your own
strength to help those of lesser strength.... People feel this inequality.
When we help we may inadvertently take away from people more than we
could ever give them; we may diminish their self-esteem, their sense of
worth, integrity and wholeness.... Serving is also different from fixing.
When I fix a person I perceive them as broken.... Fixing is a form of
judgment. All judgment creates distance, a disconnection, an experience
of difference. In fixing there is an inequality of expertise that can
easily become a moral distance. We cannot serve at a distance. We can
only serve that to which we are profoundly connected, that which we are
willing to touch. This is Mother Teresa's basic message. We serve life
not because it is broken but because it is holy." (from Noetic Sciences
Review, Spring 1996, retrieved from www.rachelremen.com/service.html)
That describes the feeling that I often had as I was reading Aspire!
I felt an “inequality” as I read the book. I felt like Hall thought
that his readers were broken and that he was trying to “fix” me. The
attitude that I sensed from Hall was that he is this rich, successful,
knowledgeable person who is condescending to come down and impart of his
wisdom upon the unwashed masses.
Again I stress that this was my reaction. I would encourage others to
read it for themselves and see what they can learn from “Aspire! Read
it and take advantage of Hall’s extensive research into the origin and
power of words. I have my reservations with the book, but it did, in
many ways, fulfill Covey’s introductory promise and demonstrate the
“inherent power” of words.
As of the writing this review (July 2009) Aspire! is only available
through Kevin Hall’s website powerofwords.net, where it is listed at
$24.95. No ISBN is listed on the book or on the website. It is being
published by Book Wise Publishing which was founded by Richard Paul
Evans, author of The Christmas Box. Underneath the publishing
information it states that this is a “Special Limited Edition Printing.”
I googled the book’s title to see if there was an ISBN listed for it
somewhere. I found a link to the Harper Collnis website. It looks like
they will be publishing an edition of Aspire! in December of 2009
under their William Morrow imprint. The price is listed at $24.00, the
ISBN’s that they give are ISBN: 9780061964541; ISBN10: 0061964549.
Copyright
2009